A true Love story.

Far, far away...
"After spending summer break with my girlfriend in her hometown, I was on cloud nine and excited to continue our relationship the next semester. But when I got home I found out my family was moving to Dubai for several months. My dad had to work there and my parents insisted I take a semester off and go with them. My girlfriend and I were heartbroken, especially when we realized how many firsts we'd miss out on — our first New Year's, Valentine's Day, and both of our birthdays — but there was nothing we could do. The night before I left, I snuck out of the house so we could spend our last night together. We couldn't sleep — we just lay in her bed wide awake and tried to cherish our last moments together. When we both started to cry, she told me that I'd always be in her heart. She kept reassuring me that she would remain faithful and that I'd still have a girlfriend when I came back, no matter how long it took. It's been four months, and although we're far apart and it's so painful, I still love her so much. Whenever I'm feeling sad I think about that last night we spent together."

I really wanted to share this story with you guys. I thought it was sweet but what surprised me was that its written by a boy. It wasn't the girlfriend saying I will miss him so! Like most stories like this go. In this story it was the boyfriend. And all thought they probably aren't together anymore, or maybe they are, but in most cases they don't, they seem very much in Love. For anyone to say that what they are feeling isn't Love, its pointless and arrogance. Maybe they aren't ready to get married, but they are very much in Love. I hope you guys like it =) i Loved it!

Always live in Love...

Wedding day! =)

Every girl since the day they have their first crush, they start thinking about their wedding day. The most amazing day of their life. Some brides get right down crazy!! and some have the time of their lives. Of course, they all look beautiful. Their white dresses and vails and some tieras thrown in there. But before the big day, theres plenty of restless nights and parties and planning to do. Theres the cake and the church and the dress and the shes and and HAA! so many little details that have to be taken care of. I will hopefully make it to a wedding next weekend. Its not family but I am still very excited. I love going to weddings. The getting dressed and the Love that you witness(hopefully) and the dancing afterwards! I wont say that I havnt thought about the big day, but I am only 17-years old so im not obsessing over it. I just hope that day comes! of course after i party hardy in college =P

Open Relationships

Craziest thing that I have ever heard!!! An open relationship. An open relationship is basically a couple who is together but is ok with the other person having sexual or emotional meeting, i guess you could say, with other people. They can have 3-sums and 4-sums. Its crazy. Its basically a relationship between more than just two people. I first heard about this on the Tyra Banks show. She had a couple who were in an open relationship. They both had another partner. So there they were, two men and two women who basically had sex with each other and loved each other. Its a little confusing at first. As you may think, the audience was just shocked. I would be two. The women tried to explain that it wasn't bad. She explained how she loved her husband but liked the other guy too. So why should she deny her feeling for that other guy just because she loves her husband. And the husband agreed. He too had another. She also told a very interesting story. Actually two different stories. The first was about how while her husband was at work she had her other over. SO they were having sexual relations when her husband got home. Usually he would freak out, but instead he just joined in! I know crazy right! Her second story is even crazier. She told us about a time that her and her husbands other (yes two females) were sitting outside and just started getting "friendly". So they went and called the guys to join in, and so they did. The whole time my jaw was on the floor. I mean isn't this what every women and men hope does not happen?? Isn't this what some guys dream about, but their girl says no. How can they be ok with knowing that the person you Love is also loving someone else? That you aren't enough?? that they need more. I would not be comfortable with it. But like the woman said, its not for everybody. I think she is right on that. Its definitely not for me.

Cheating..

One of the most hurtful causes of a couples breakup is, yes cheating. What makes a guy or girl cheat? Isnt it easier to just tell the one your with that you dont feel it anymore and just move on? Because obviously, if you go and cheat you dont really care about the other person. People say that it happens in the heat of the moment and that you cant control it. The truth is that you can. Its your choice to give into the moment or just walk away. Its all up to you. What would you do if the person you Love cheated on you? Would you take them back? Personally i dont know. Of course I would be hurt and mad and many other things, but I dont know if I could ever be the same with that person. If I couldnt trust them anymore I couldnt be in a relationship with them. The whole thing about cheating is not only the being unfaithful. Its also about the cheated feeling distant from the cheater. They cant trust them anymore they cant be the way they ounce were. So the whole relationship goes down the tubes from there. The biggest fact that I dont understand is why go through all that lying and pain when you can just be honest and do the same thing. Well I guess that everyone is different. I would Love to hear what you guys have to say on this.

Is it Love?

How do you know if it is Love? No one can just find the answer for you and let you know. You cant google it or take those stupid little quizzes. You cant just put your name and your lovers name in a website and push Love? It doesn't work out that way however much we would like it to. There are sites that tell you if you always think about him your in Love or if you smile when you hear his name you smile, but really if you think about t ounce you start going out with a guy you really like you will do all that. You obviously don't Love them you just really like them. So again how do we know if its Love?!? The only person that can answer that question is you. Ounce you meet that one special guy or girl you will know. Everything about them will draw you in more and more until you cant get out and your stuck but you don't care. Your happy being stuck. That's what I think is Love. When you get so mad at the person that you want to strangle them and yet want to kiss them at the same time. When you cant do anything without them because it just doesn't feel right. That's what I think Love is. But then again I am just a 17 year-old teenager, what do I know about Love? right? ........

Always live in Love...

Love Photography

One of my many hobbies is photography. Specifically Love photography. I love making up scenes and just see where it takes them. I dont have any of my pictures up yet but I will try my hardest to show some to you guys! =) I hope you guys Love the pictures.

Always live in Love...

Lifelong Love

" Eternal Love"

You hear people say that teenagers don't know what Love is and they rush into everything and don't think before they act. Id like to go back to the blog I wrote last week about the TV show "engaged and under aged". In todays society most ten marriages don't last. But I wanted to tell the story of an couple and a somewhat new couple. The older couple story is about A man and a woman dated back to 1912. They were only 15 years old when they said their "I do's". He left for the war leaving her behind. Yet he came back to her. They celebrated their 75th anniversary, but soon after he passed away. The sad part of the story is that in those 75 years they were not separated ounce except for when he left for the war. And at the end, their family split them apart due to family issues. They were both senile so they didn't really know what was going on. So one went with one family member and the other with a different family member. So their last moments that they could be together, they weren't. You still have admire this Love. They were together since they were only 15 years old. That's amazing. I wish I could have something like that.

The second couple is about my parents. My mom was 14 and my dad was only 17 when they first started going out officially. They wanted to get married when my mom was 18, but gain, family issues did not permit them to do so. So my mom ended up pregnant at 19 and had me at 20. After that both sides of the family were furious, but couldn't keep them apart because of the baby( me =]). Finally 5 years after they said their "I do's" and have been married ever since. This isn't as amazing as the first one but, that's how they will be in the future. They could never live without each other. yes they have arguments but they get over them because they Love each other.

What I am trying to say to everyone is that yes you shouldn't just go off and get married especially not at 15 or 17 or 22, but you might be the exception that happens every ounce and a while. But the thing is its better to be safe than sorry. Make sure its what you want. Make sure that you know what your getting yourself into. There is no reason to rush. You have plenty of time.
Always live in Love...