Cheating..

One of the most hurtful causes of a couples breakup is, yes cheating. What makes a guy or girl cheat? Isnt it easier to just tell the one your with that you dont feel it anymore and just move on? Because obviously, if you go and cheat you dont really care about the other person. People say that it happens in the heat of the moment and that you cant control it. The truth is that you can. Its your choice to give into the moment or just walk away. Its all up to you. What would you do if the person you Love cheated on you? Would you take them back? Personally i dont know. Of course I would be hurt and mad and many other things, but I dont know if I could ever be the same with that person. If I couldnt trust them anymore I couldnt be in a relationship with them. The whole thing about cheating is not only the being unfaithful. Its also about the cheated feeling distant from the cheater. They cant trust them anymore they cant be the way they ounce were. So the whole relationship goes down the tubes from there. The biggest fact that I dont understand is why go through all that lying and pain when you can just be honest and do the same thing. Well I guess that everyone is different. I would Love to hear what you guys have to say on this.