A true Love story.

Far, far away...
"After spending summer break with my girlfriend in her hometown, I was on cloud nine and excited to continue our relationship the next semester. But when I got home I found out my family was moving to Dubai for several months. My dad had to work there and my parents insisted I take a semester off and go with them. My girlfriend and I were heartbroken, especially when we realized how many firsts we'd miss out on — our first New Year's, Valentine's Day, and both of our birthdays — but there was nothing we could do. The night before I left, I snuck out of the house so we could spend our last night together. We couldn't sleep — we just lay in her bed wide awake and tried to cherish our last moments together. When we both started to cry, she told me that I'd always be in her heart. She kept reassuring me that she would remain faithful and that I'd still have a girlfriend when I came back, no matter how long it took. It's been four months, and although we're far apart and it's so painful, I still love her so much. Whenever I'm feeling sad I think about that last night we spent together."

I really wanted to share this story with you guys. I thought it was sweet but what surprised me was that its written by a boy. It wasn't the girlfriend saying I will miss him so! Like most stories like this go. In this story it was the boyfriend. And all thought they probably aren't together anymore, or maybe they are, but in most cases they don't, they seem very much in Love. For anyone to say that what they are feeling isn't Love, its pointless and arrogance. Maybe they aren't ready to get married, but they are very much in Love. I hope you guys like it =) i Loved it!

Always live in Love...

Wedding day! =)

Every girl since the day they have their first crush, they start thinking about their wedding day. The most amazing day of their life. Some brides get right down crazy!! and some have the time of their lives. Of course, they all look beautiful. Their white dresses and vails and some tieras thrown in there. But before the big day, theres plenty of restless nights and parties and planning to do. Theres the cake and the church and the dress and the shes and and HAA! so many little details that have to be taken care of. I will hopefully make it to a wedding next weekend. Its not family but I am still very excited. I love going to weddings. The getting dressed and the Love that you witness(hopefully) and the dancing afterwards! I wont say that I havnt thought about the big day, but I am only 17-years old so im not obsessing over it. I just hope that day comes! of course after i party hardy in college =P

Open Relationships

Craziest thing that I have ever heard!!! An open relationship. An open relationship is basically a couple who is together but is ok with the other person having sexual or emotional meeting, i guess you could say, with other people. They can have 3-sums and 4-sums. Its crazy. Its basically a relationship between more than just two people. I first heard about this on the Tyra Banks show. She had a couple who were in an open relationship. They both had another partner. So there they were, two men and two women who basically had sex with each other and loved each other. Its a little confusing at first. As you may think, the audience was just shocked. I would be two. The women tried to explain that it wasn't bad. She explained how she loved her husband but liked the other guy too. So why should she deny her feeling for that other guy just because she loves her husband. And the husband agreed. He too had another. She also told a very interesting story. Actually two different stories. The first was about how while her husband was at work she had her other over. SO they were having sexual relations when her husband got home. Usually he would freak out, but instead he just joined in! I know crazy right! Her second story is even crazier. She told us about a time that her and her husbands other (yes two females) were sitting outside and just started getting "friendly". So they went and called the guys to join in, and so they did. The whole time my jaw was on the floor. I mean isn't this what every women and men hope does not happen?? Isn't this what some guys dream about, but their girl says no. How can they be ok with knowing that the person you Love is also loving someone else? That you aren't enough?? that they need more. I would not be comfortable with it. But like the woman said, its not for everybody. I think she is right on that. Its definitely not for me.

Cheating..

One of the most hurtful causes of a couples breakup is, yes cheating. What makes a guy or girl cheat? Isnt it easier to just tell the one your with that you dont feel it anymore and just move on? Because obviously, if you go and cheat you dont really care about the other person. People say that it happens in the heat of the moment and that you cant control it. The truth is that you can. Its your choice to give into the moment or just walk away. Its all up to you. What would you do if the person you Love cheated on you? Would you take them back? Personally i dont know. Of course I would be hurt and mad and many other things, but I dont know if I could ever be the same with that person. If I couldnt trust them anymore I couldnt be in a relationship with them. The whole thing about cheating is not only the being unfaithful. Its also about the cheated feeling distant from the cheater. They cant trust them anymore they cant be the way they ounce were. So the whole relationship goes down the tubes from there. The biggest fact that I dont understand is why go through all that lying and pain when you can just be honest and do the same thing. Well I guess that everyone is different. I would Love to hear what you guys have to say on this.

Is it Love?

How do you know if it is Love? No one can just find the answer for you and let you know. You cant google it or take those stupid little quizzes. You cant just put your name and your lovers name in a website and push Love? It doesn't work out that way however much we would like it to. There are sites that tell you if you always think about him your in Love or if you smile when you hear his name you smile, but really if you think about t ounce you start going out with a guy you really like you will do all that. You obviously don't Love them you just really like them. So again how do we know if its Love?!? The only person that can answer that question is you. Ounce you meet that one special guy or girl you will know. Everything about them will draw you in more and more until you cant get out and your stuck but you don't care. Your happy being stuck. That's what I think is Love. When you get so mad at the person that you want to strangle them and yet want to kiss them at the same time. When you cant do anything without them because it just doesn't feel right. That's what I think Love is. But then again I am just a 17 year-old teenager, what do I know about Love? right? ........

Always live in Love...

Love Photography

One of my many hobbies is photography. Specifically Love photography. I love making up scenes and just see where it takes them. I dont have any of my pictures up yet but I will try my hardest to show some to you guys! =) I hope you guys Love the pictures.

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Lifelong Love

" Eternal Love"

You hear people say that teenagers don't know what Love is and they rush into everything and don't think before they act. Id like to go back to the blog I wrote last week about the TV show "engaged and under aged". In todays society most ten marriages don't last. But I wanted to tell the story of an couple and a somewhat new couple. The older couple story is about A man and a woman dated back to 1912. They were only 15 years old when they said their "I do's". He left for the war leaving her behind. Yet he came back to her. They celebrated their 75th anniversary, but soon after he passed away. The sad part of the story is that in those 75 years they were not separated ounce except for when he left for the war. And at the end, their family split them apart due to family issues. They were both senile so they didn't really know what was going on. So one went with one family member and the other with a different family member. So their last moments that they could be together, they weren't. You still have admire this Love. They were together since they were only 15 years old. That's amazing. I wish I could have something like that.

The second couple is about my parents. My mom was 14 and my dad was only 17 when they first started going out officially. They wanted to get married when my mom was 18, but gain, family issues did not permit them to do so. So my mom ended up pregnant at 19 and had me at 20. After that both sides of the family were furious, but couldn't keep them apart because of the baby( me =]). Finally 5 years after they said their "I do's" and have been married ever since. This isn't as amazing as the first one but, that's how they will be in the future. They could never live without each other. yes they have arguments but they get over them because they Love each other.

What I am trying to say to everyone is that yes you shouldn't just go off and get married especially not at 15 or 17 or 22, but you might be the exception that happens every ounce and a while. But the thing is its better to be safe than sorry. Make sure its what you want. Make sure that you know what your getting yourself into. There is no reason to rush. You have plenty of time.
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Looking into the future.

My friend asked me a very interesting question about her relationships or relationships in general really. Does it hurt the relationship to look into the future? I had no idea how to answer this question. It could go both ways. It also depends on the people in the relationships. Some couples can take the "talk" about what will happen in the future or what they would like to happen. Others, on the other hand, can not. They will just make the two people feel uncomfortable if both people don't feel the same or want the same thing. Its hard thing to do. You don't want to scare the other person, but you want to let them know how you feel.So, how do YOU know that your relationship can take it? I would Love to know the answer to that. Although I think that you can always test the water. For example, talk about something coming up in a few months, if the other person seems ok with it go to something even farther away. I guess ease yourself into it. Not everyone is comfortable with talking about getting married. The real question is why do you want to talk about it?? I say to just enjoy the relationship and make every moment count, and when the time comes to talk about all that big people stuff both of you will be ready and everything will just work out. If it doesn't, like i have said before, it wasn't meant to be. And I know that's easier said than done, trust me I know.

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Under aged and Engaged !?!

Kids these days! Always trying to grow up to fast. On Mtv there was a TV show called under aged and engaged. It was about teenage couple who were just turning 18 or who haven't even turned 18. The show would follow them through the telling the parents and planning the wedding and all the little fights and then the big day. What I liked about this show is that it also shows afterwards. After the honeymoon. When they start living on their own and all of a sudden they don't seem so happy. Of course I don't mean all of them. There were a few that everything worked out. Their families were behind them and they were really in Love and it worked. But there were the ones that were definitely not in Love and it did not work out in the end. It also said what happen to them in the end. If they stated together or if they split up or anything else. High school teens often see marriage as in just a status. Just like being boyfriend and girlfriend or being hubby and wifey. They don't see that marriage is a big deal no a HUGE deal. Its a promise to stay with that person forever. It also means that you wont be treated like a kid anymore. Your married. Now you have bills and you need to get a job and still finish school. To me its way to much work! If you really Love the person your with that's great! but why move so fast? Relax. You have all your life ahead of you to get married. If you two are really in Love waiting a couple of years until you finish school is not going to change anything. And if things do change and you end up leaving each other then it happens. you move on. But its harder if your married. You cant just leave. You made a promise. I wont lie, I have thought about getting married. I am a girl duh =P. But even though it sounds great in my head I know it wont always be great. And I hate to say this but what if we do end up braking up. I wouldn't want to worry about getting divorced and waisting all that money just because I was a stupid teenager. To us girls marriage is like a bigger prom. See guys, now you know why we freak over prom so much. We cant wait to wear that amazing white dress and walk down the isle and look into the eyes of that cutie. and then the honeymoon. It sounds amazing, but that what a month top? what happens after that? Not only teens need to think about that question. Adults make the same mistakes. I think that the world should just stop. think. and then act. But then again we don't live in make believe land. We are human. We do make mistakes. But why make them when we can prevent them?? We don't need to get married. Isn't it enough to be with the person you Love?? I think for the time being, it is. For the future, who knows! Anything can happen...

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Online dating sites

We always see all these commercials and ads about online dating sites. For example, eHarmony. com or Match.com. Living in the 21st century its great that we have technology that allows us to meet new people without even stepping out our front door. But is that a huge problem in disguise? More and more people are resorting to meeting the "one" online instead of going out and letting fate bring the person to them. To me, meeting online is not a natural thing. You don't really know who the person is or how they are or how they look. You don't even really know if their a male or female. Plus, today there are way to many sick people out there to take such a huge risk. Its dangerous. Also, I don't think its as much fun! You don't go through the awkward first things. the awkward first words and looks. Now let me explain that i am not against finding someone through technology, I have a family friend that met her husband because he dialed the wrong number. I just don't think that people should go out and look for Love because it wont end well. The "one" will just show up at your door, when they are meant to.

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ADVICE!!!

I will like to take this blog to ask for your stories. I would Love to hear any stories that you would like to share with me. If you need any advice ask! =) I will do my best to help anyone out!

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"Reincarnaion" by Suzanne Weyn

"From prehistory to the present, theirs was a love for the ages. It starts with a fight in a cave over an elusive green jewel . . . and then travels over time and lives to include Egyptian slaves, Greek temples, Massachusetts witch trials, Civil War battlefields, Paris on the eve of World War II, America in the 1960s . . . and a pair of modern-day teenagers. For readers who believe that love is stronger than time or death, this is an unforgettable novel from a wonderful storyteller."

For all my readers I highly suggest this novel. You wont want to put it down from the second you open the book. Its an amazing story about two people who travel through centuries. They end up in different parts of the world, they switch sexes, they love other people, and yet they find each other one way or another. It really makes you think. How wonderful would that be?? That's truly every girls dream. I couldn't help but smile the whole way until the end. What I like about it is that its not only one long story. You have two main characters, but they are so many different people. In the end you read tons of little stories that all connect by these two people. You also learn about history. It has many of the major events from history all over the world. It has slavery, Egyptian times, world war 2 and much more. I don't want to tell you to much, Id like for you to explore it on your own. I will tell that the chapter called Athens, Greece is absolutely my favorite. It was such a touching story, but don't take my word for it! Go out and read!! =)

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P.S. - Hey Mrs. Stoklosa!! I used a vocab word =)

The rainy days.

Love is an amazing thing, don't get me wrong, but sometimes it has its not as amazing moments. The more in Love you are the more i think fights hurt. I cant figure out why people who say they Love each other so much can say such hurtful things. Do we get bored of being nice and happy all the time? When I'm in a fight it just ruins my whole day. I try to brush it off and hide it with a smile, but its hard. Especially when he doesn't attend cypress bay. Sometimes I just wish i would know when fights are coming, so I can stop them before they even start. Relationships are hard and sometimes you want to just give up. That's when you find out how much you really Love the other person.

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Dr. Suess

Cute quote right? This is one of my favorite quotes and by Dr. Seuss?? who knew! Anyway what do you think this quote means? or what does it mean to you? To me its saying that Love changes you. We all have been there. When you just cant fall asleep because that one person is on your mind. You think about how they look and when you'll see them again. You read those little notes they give you and look at all the pictures. You read the old text messages and emails. You might be tired, but you just don't want to fall asleep because your afraid to wake up and realize it was all a dream. I know i have been there. I don't know if you can really say your in Love by just you doing this because if you really like a person you will do this too. It does not mean your in Love. On the other hand, if you are in Love this will definitely happens, and you just cant help it. When you have a bad day all you want to do is just go back to bed and just start over. But like the quote is saying, when you r in Love you don't want to start over. You want to stay in that moment forever. I have this quote on my wall. I just Loveeee it. Hope you guys enjoy it too.

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L'Amore

When we think about Love we usually think of boys or girls. But you can Love anything. Like an iteam an idea a country or anything you like. Many of you do not know that I was born in Italy. I lived there until i was about 8eight or nine. I truly Loved it there. Its such a different life style. Its more relaxed and calm. Then again I did live in a tiny town in the mountains, so maybe thats why. I sometimes miss living there, but i know i have a better life here then in my old little town. I went back last summer and I finally saw my family and friends. It was so nice to catch up with everybody. Viva Italia!! Ciao a tutti! I also have some pictures that you could take a look at!! =)

Vivi sempre con Amore...

The big No-No??

Since my blog is about Love I want to involve all subjects dealing with Love. A huge issue is sex. What is the right age to go all the way? should you wait untill you get married? Are you personally ready? Is the person the right one? Well to answer to all those questions are...Nowhere to be found but in yourself. There really is no age that you should wait untill to have sex. Thats like saying you cant drink soda untill you are 9. It makes no sence. Then again, I dont think its right when 13 year olds are going all the way. Waiting untill you get married is a wonderful thought but lets face it, my generation is not going to follow that up. Kids are having sex younger and younger and its a little scary. I prsonally dont agree with the "you have to wait untill your married!" the reason why is because the only reason people say that to kids is to prevent them from having it. Little do they know..it doesnt work! It actually makes it worse. The only thing you should answer before you do go all the way is are you ready and is he the right guy. That sounds easy enough right? NOT! How do you know your really ready?? I heard someone say that you know your ready when you think about it and you have no doubts. Your not going, hmm i dont know maybe i am. Thats when your not ready. But thats the easy part, finding that right guy that will treat you right and not use you is the hard part. Because you know what your thinking but, they are their own human beings (believe it or not). They can lie!! and they are capable of messing with you to get what they want. The bad thing about that is that you never really know. You just have to trust yourself and that other person and hope for the best. My advice to everyone is dont do anything that you dont want to do or think that its something you shouldnt be doing, and use protection!!! In the end we all are human beings and its a natural and beautiful thing, when done for the right reasons. We just have to be smart about it. It is a way of showing your Love for that person, just remember that. Because if us girls dont, then all the guys in world will completely forget. Not to rag on guys. I love guys! Its just that some of the guys are not the best people and I am talking about those and not the good ones out there like my baby =). Never forget...

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The after math...

Valentines day was amazing for me!! =) It was so cute. My boyfriend came over my house and he brought me flowers and chocolates and a teddy bear and he also wrote me a letter. Then we walked around and just goofed around. then we got ice cream and we went to the park and laid on the grass. He was just so sweet, it was fun. Anyway I have heard some pretty amazing valentines days. I would Love to hear from you guys! How was your valentines day?? One valentines day story stuck in my head and i would Love to share with you all, but its very inappropriate hahaha.

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Valentines Day...

Well as you all know valentines day is just around the corner!! I am personally super excited about it this year. Why you may ask?? well I actually have someone to celebrate it with! =) Now I have heard a lot of different views on this holiday. Some people say Its a just another holiday to get gifts, some say its just a holiday that the greeting card companies made up to get more money, and some say its the day you show your Love for that one special person.I think its a combination of the greeting card and the Love thing. I personally do celebrate it. Even when I didn't have a guy in my life. My dad would get my sister, mom, and myself cards or flowers. I would get things for my friends too. Its just fun to show the people you Love that you, well, Love them. I will definitely tell you guys all about my valentines day!! But before i leave I would like to know what your views on valentines day are and why. Cant wait to hear from you guys!!

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The Notebook.

The Most amazing movie of all time is the notebook. Its of course a Love story, but its not the typical Love story. It starts off in an elderly home where this man starts to read a book to this woman. The book is about a summer that two kids would never forget: the summer they fell in Love. Now the story the mans reading is about him and the woman, but she dosnt know it due to all timers. He tells her how this 17-year-old boy saw this girl and immedietly fell in Love with her. The 17-year-old girl thought he was a little to open and out there. He begged for a date but she kept on turning him down. Then his friend set them up on a double date wit himself and his girlfriend. They went to a movie and after the movie they decided to walk home alone. I wont spoil the ending or anything so dont worry. I will tell you that it will make you smile till the end. theres fights and tears and smiles and kisses and much much more. I suggest that you check it out ASAP!!

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What is Love?

For my past two blogs I haven't really talked about Love. This week i decided to really get on the topic of Love. What does it mean or what do you think it means, and when or how do you know your really in Love?. Try and explain it to someone that doesn't know what the word means. Its impossible. I don't even know what Love is. If I had to explain it I would probably start off by saying that you cant explain it.
Love is irrational.
Love makes us do crazy things.
Love makes us think differently.
Love changes you from the inside out without you even noticing until its to late to go back.
Love is when you feel like nothing can go wrong because you know that no matter what happens you have that one person by your side.
Love is a feeling but much more than that. Its a state of mind where all you can do is think about that one person and smile like an idiot. The funny thing is, you don't care. You will look like an idiot and not care! I know that's not really an explanation, but like I said its not an easy word to define. Good thing it wont be on my vocab test =). If you had to define Love in a way, how would you do it? Think about it. I know thinking is hard and we don't like to do it but come on its not such a bad topic.Older people always say that teenagers don't know what Love is. Yet do they? If they don't know what Love is how can they say we don't? there isn't an age that you fall in Love in. It just happens. It might be at 5 years old, 15 years old, 17 years old, 22 years old, or even 99 years old. The scary thing about Love is that you put yourself out there and give yourself to another person. Now their in control of your heart and that's a scary thing. I hope none of you get hurt by Love and give up on it, because when you do find it, i promise it will be worth the wait.

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Love Story

My new favorite song is love story by Taylor swift. Its an amazing song that just makes you smile. I seriously play it 24-7!! She has a new CD out called fearless. Perfect present right there! Anyway its a song about a girl who meets this boy and they fall in love but her father does not want them to be together. And the whole time she sings about how she cried for him and things like that. At the end she sings about how they finally reunite and she tells him that shes been waiting for him to take her away and save her. Of course it ends like a fairytale. He kneels on one knee and tells her that all he want to know is that he loves her and whats to be with her and asks her to marry him. Its basically a love story! I guess she didn't have to work a lot on the name. Its the perfect song to listen to when your a little down or happy! check it out!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82iiS_4nikY

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The Love Bug??

You all know about the famous Love bug. It comes and bites everyone in butt at one time or another. Even if you dont want it to it always comes around. Im very excited about this blog because its a place where you can share your stories about falling in Love..or out of Love, about the good times and the bad, and a place where you can get advice on relationships, crushes, or anything you need advice for. Feel free to leave comments!!

Hope you guys Love reading this as much as I will Love writting it.

I also found some very cute pictures that i thought you might like. Enjoy!! =)

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