The big No-No??

Since my blog is about Love I want to involve all subjects dealing with Love. A huge issue is sex. What is the right age to go all the way? should you wait untill you get married? Are you personally ready? Is the person the right one? Well to answer to all those questions are...Nowhere to be found but in yourself. There really is no age that you should wait untill to have sex. Thats like saying you cant drink soda untill you are 9. It makes no sence. Then again, I dont think its right when 13 year olds are going all the way. Waiting untill you get married is a wonderful thought but lets face it, my generation is not going to follow that up. Kids are having sex younger and younger and its a little scary. I prsonally dont agree with the "you have to wait untill your married!" the reason why is because the only reason people say that to kids is to prevent them from having it. Little do they know..it doesnt work! It actually makes it worse. The only thing you should answer before you do go all the way is are you ready and is he the right guy. That sounds easy enough right? NOT! How do you know your really ready?? I heard someone say that you know your ready when you think about it and you have no doubts. Your not going, hmm i dont know maybe i am. Thats when your not ready. But thats the easy part, finding that right guy that will treat you right and not use you is the hard part. Because you know what your thinking but, they are their own human beings (believe it or not). They can lie!! and they are capable of messing with you to get what they want. The bad thing about that is that you never really know. You just have to trust yourself and that other person and hope for the best. My advice to everyone is dont do anything that you dont want to do or think that its something you shouldnt be doing, and use protection!!! In the end we all are human beings and its a natural and beautiful thing, when done for the right reasons. We just have to be smart about it. It is a way of showing your Love for that person, just remember that. Because if us girls dont, then all the guys in world will completely forget. Not to rag on guys. I love guys! Its just that some of the guys are not the best people and I am talking about those and not the good ones out there like my baby =). Never forget...

Always live in Love...