Looking into the future.

My friend asked me a very interesting question about her relationships or relationships in general really. Does it hurt the relationship to look into the future? I had no idea how to answer this question. It could go both ways. It also depends on the people in the relationships. Some couples can take the "talk" about what will happen in the future or what they would like to happen. Others, on the other hand, can not. They will just make the two people feel uncomfortable if both people don't feel the same or want the same thing. Its hard thing to do. You don't want to scare the other person, but you want to let them know how you feel.So, how do YOU know that your relationship can take it? I would Love to know the answer to that. Although I think that you can always test the water. For example, talk about something coming up in a few months, if the other person seems ok with it go to something even farther away. I guess ease yourself into it. Not everyone is comfortable with talking about getting married. The real question is why do you want to talk about it?? I say to just enjoy the relationship and make every moment count, and when the time comes to talk about all that big people stuff both of you will be ready and everything will just work out. If it doesn't, like i have said before, it wasn't meant to be. And I know that's easier said than done, trust me I know.

Always live in Love...