Cheating..

One of the most hurtful causes of a couples breakup is, yes cheating. What makes a guy or girl cheat? Isnt it easier to just tell the one your with that you dont feel it anymore and just move on? Because obviously, if you go and cheat you dont really care about the other person. People say that it happens in the heat of the moment and that you cant control it. The truth is that you can. Its your choice to give into the moment or just walk away. Its all up to you. What would you do if the person you Love cheated on you? Would you take them back? Personally i dont know. Of course I would be hurt and mad and many other things, but I dont know if I could ever be the same with that person. If I couldnt trust them anymore I couldnt be in a relationship with them. The whole thing about cheating is not only the being unfaithful. Its also about the cheated feeling distant from the cheater. They cant trust them anymore they cant be the way they ounce were. So the whole relationship goes down the tubes from there. The biggest fact that I dont understand is why go through all that lying and pain when you can just be honest and do the same thing. Well I guess that everyone is different. I would Love to hear what you guys have to say on this.

Is it Love?

How do you know if it is Love? No one can just find the answer for you and let you know. You cant google it or take those stupid little quizzes. You cant just put your name and your lovers name in a website and push Love? It doesn't work out that way however much we would like it to. There are sites that tell you if you always think about him your in Love or if you smile when you hear his name you smile, but really if you think about t ounce you start going out with a guy you really like you will do all that. You obviously don't Love them you just really like them. So again how do we know if its Love?!? The only person that can answer that question is you. Ounce you meet that one special guy or girl you will know. Everything about them will draw you in more and more until you cant get out and your stuck but you don't care. Your happy being stuck. That's what I think is Love. When you get so mad at the person that you want to strangle them and yet want to kiss them at the same time. When you cant do anything without them because it just doesn't feel right. That's what I think Love is. But then again I am just a 17 year-old teenager, what do I know about Love? right? ........

Always live in Love...

Love Photography

One of my many hobbies is photography. Specifically Love photography. I love making up scenes and just see where it takes them. I dont have any of my pictures up yet but I will try my hardest to show some to you guys! =) I hope you guys Love the pictures.

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Lifelong Love

" Eternal Love"

You hear people say that teenagers don't know what Love is and they rush into everything and don't think before they act. Id like to go back to the blog I wrote last week about the TV show "engaged and under aged". In todays society most ten marriages don't last. But I wanted to tell the story of an couple and a somewhat new couple. The older couple story is about A man and a woman dated back to 1912. They were only 15 years old when they said their "I do's". He left for the war leaving her behind. Yet he came back to her. They celebrated their 75th anniversary, but soon after he passed away. The sad part of the story is that in those 75 years they were not separated ounce except for when he left for the war. And at the end, their family split them apart due to family issues. They were both senile so they didn't really know what was going on. So one went with one family member and the other with a different family member. So their last moments that they could be together, they weren't. You still have admire this Love. They were together since they were only 15 years old. That's amazing. I wish I could have something like that.

The second couple is about my parents. My mom was 14 and my dad was only 17 when they first started going out officially. They wanted to get married when my mom was 18, but gain, family issues did not permit them to do so. So my mom ended up pregnant at 19 and had me at 20. After that both sides of the family were furious, but couldn't keep them apart because of the baby( me =]). Finally 5 years after they said their "I do's" and have been married ever since. This isn't as amazing as the first one but, that's how they will be in the future. They could never live without each other. yes they have arguments but they get over them because they Love each other.

What I am trying to say to everyone is that yes you shouldn't just go off and get married especially not at 15 or 17 or 22, but you might be the exception that happens every ounce and a while. But the thing is its better to be safe than sorry. Make sure its what you want. Make sure that you know what your getting yourself into. There is no reason to rush. You have plenty of time.
Always live in Love...

Looking into the future.

My friend asked me a very interesting question about her relationships or relationships in general really. Does it hurt the relationship to look into the future? I had no idea how to answer this question. It could go both ways. It also depends on the people in the relationships. Some couples can take the "talk" about what will happen in the future or what they would like to happen. Others, on the other hand, can not. They will just make the two people feel uncomfortable if both people don't feel the same or want the same thing. Its hard thing to do. You don't want to scare the other person, but you want to let them know how you feel.So, how do YOU know that your relationship can take it? I would Love to know the answer to that. Although I think that you can always test the water. For example, talk about something coming up in a few months, if the other person seems ok with it go to something even farther away. I guess ease yourself into it. Not everyone is comfortable with talking about getting married. The real question is why do you want to talk about it?? I say to just enjoy the relationship and make every moment count, and when the time comes to talk about all that big people stuff both of you will be ready and everything will just work out. If it doesn't, like i have said before, it wasn't meant to be. And I know that's easier said than done, trust me I know.

Always live in Love...

Under aged and Engaged !?!

Kids these days! Always trying to grow up to fast. On Mtv there was a TV show called under aged and engaged. It was about teenage couple who were just turning 18 or who haven't even turned 18. The show would follow them through the telling the parents and planning the wedding and all the little fights and then the big day. What I liked about this show is that it also shows afterwards. After the honeymoon. When they start living on their own and all of a sudden they don't seem so happy. Of course I don't mean all of them. There were a few that everything worked out. Their families were behind them and they were really in Love and it worked. But there were the ones that were definitely not in Love and it did not work out in the end. It also said what happen to them in the end. If they stated together or if they split up or anything else. High school teens often see marriage as in just a status. Just like being boyfriend and girlfriend or being hubby and wifey. They don't see that marriage is a big deal no a HUGE deal. Its a promise to stay with that person forever. It also means that you wont be treated like a kid anymore. Your married. Now you have bills and you need to get a job and still finish school. To me its way to much work! If you really Love the person your with that's great! but why move so fast? Relax. You have all your life ahead of you to get married. If you two are really in Love waiting a couple of years until you finish school is not going to change anything. And if things do change and you end up leaving each other then it happens. you move on. But its harder if your married. You cant just leave. You made a promise. I wont lie, I have thought about getting married. I am a girl duh =P. But even though it sounds great in my head I know it wont always be great. And I hate to say this but what if we do end up braking up. I wouldn't want to worry about getting divorced and waisting all that money just because I was a stupid teenager. To us girls marriage is like a bigger prom. See guys, now you know why we freak over prom so much. We cant wait to wear that amazing white dress and walk down the isle and look into the eyes of that cutie. and then the honeymoon. It sounds amazing, but that what a month top? what happens after that? Not only teens need to think about that question. Adults make the same mistakes. I think that the world should just stop. think. and then act. But then again we don't live in make believe land. We are human. We do make mistakes. But why make them when we can prevent them?? We don't need to get married. Isn't it enough to be with the person you Love?? I think for the time being, it is. For the future, who knows! Anything can happen...

Always live in Love...

Online dating sites

We always see all these commercials and ads about online dating sites. For example, eHarmony. com or Match.com. Living in the 21st century its great that we have technology that allows us to meet new people without even stepping out our front door. But is that a huge problem in disguise? More and more people are resorting to meeting the "one" online instead of going out and letting fate bring the person to them. To me, meeting online is not a natural thing. You don't really know who the person is or how they are or how they look. You don't even really know if their a male or female. Plus, today there are way to many sick people out there to take such a huge risk. Its dangerous. Also, I don't think its as much fun! You don't go through the awkward first things. the awkward first words and looks. Now let me explain that i am not against finding someone through technology, I have a family friend that met her husband because he dialed the wrong number. I just don't think that people should go out and look for Love because it wont end well. The "one" will just show up at your door, when they are meant to.

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