Lifelong Love

" Eternal Love"

You hear people say that teenagers don't know what Love is and they rush into everything and don't think before they act. Id like to go back to the blog I wrote last week about the TV show "engaged and under aged". In todays society most ten marriages don't last. But I wanted to tell the story of an couple and a somewhat new couple. The older couple story is about A man and a woman dated back to 1912. They were only 15 years old when they said their "I do's". He left for the war leaving her behind. Yet he came back to her. They celebrated their 75th anniversary, but soon after he passed away. The sad part of the story is that in those 75 years they were not separated ounce except for when he left for the war. And at the end, their family split them apart due to family issues. They were both senile so they didn't really know what was going on. So one went with one family member and the other with a different family member. So their last moments that they could be together, they weren't. You still have admire this Love. They were together since they were only 15 years old. That's amazing. I wish I could have something like that.

The second couple is about my parents. My mom was 14 and my dad was only 17 when they first started going out officially. They wanted to get married when my mom was 18, but gain, family issues did not permit them to do so. So my mom ended up pregnant at 19 and had me at 20. After that both sides of the family were furious, but couldn't keep them apart because of the baby( me =]). Finally 5 years after they said their "I do's" and have been married ever since. This isn't as amazing as the first one but, that's how they will be in the future. They could never live without each other. yes they have arguments but they get over them because they Love each other.

What I am trying to say to everyone is that yes you shouldn't just go off and get married especially not at 15 or 17 or 22, but you might be the exception that happens every ounce and a while. But the thing is its better to be safe than sorry. Make sure its what you want. Make sure that you know what your getting yourself into. There is no reason to rush. You have plenty of time.
Always live in Love...

Looking into the future.

My friend asked me a very interesting question about her relationships or relationships in general really. Does it hurt the relationship to look into the future? I had no idea how to answer this question. It could go both ways. It also depends on the people in the relationships. Some couples can take the "talk" about what will happen in the future or what they would like to happen. Others, on the other hand, can not. They will just make the two people feel uncomfortable if both people don't feel the same or want the same thing. Its hard thing to do. You don't want to scare the other person, but you want to let them know how you feel.So, how do YOU know that your relationship can take it? I would Love to know the answer to that. Although I think that you can always test the water. For example, talk about something coming up in a few months, if the other person seems ok with it go to something even farther away. I guess ease yourself into it. Not everyone is comfortable with talking about getting married. The real question is why do you want to talk about it?? I say to just enjoy the relationship and make every moment count, and when the time comes to talk about all that big people stuff both of you will be ready and everything will just work out. If it doesn't, like i have said before, it wasn't meant to be. And I know that's easier said than done, trust me I know.

Always live in Love...

Under aged and Engaged !?!

Kids these days! Always trying to grow up to fast. On Mtv there was a TV show called under aged and engaged. It was about teenage couple who were just turning 18 or who haven't even turned 18. The show would follow them through the telling the parents and planning the wedding and all the little fights and then the big day. What I liked about this show is that it also shows afterwards. After the honeymoon. When they start living on their own and all of a sudden they don't seem so happy. Of course I don't mean all of them. There were a few that everything worked out. Their families were behind them and they were really in Love and it worked. But there were the ones that were definitely not in Love and it did not work out in the end. It also said what happen to them in the end. If they stated together or if they split up or anything else. High school teens often see marriage as in just a status. Just like being boyfriend and girlfriend or being hubby and wifey. They don't see that marriage is a big deal no a HUGE deal. Its a promise to stay with that person forever. It also means that you wont be treated like a kid anymore. Your married. Now you have bills and you need to get a job and still finish school. To me its way to much work! If you really Love the person your with that's great! but why move so fast? Relax. You have all your life ahead of you to get married. If you two are really in Love waiting a couple of years until you finish school is not going to change anything. And if things do change and you end up leaving each other then it happens. you move on. But its harder if your married. You cant just leave. You made a promise. I wont lie, I have thought about getting married. I am a girl duh =P. But even though it sounds great in my head I know it wont always be great. And I hate to say this but what if we do end up braking up. I wouldn't want to worry about getting divorced and waisting all that money just because I was a stupid teenager. To us girls marriage is like a bigger prom. See guys, now you know why we freak over prom so much. We cant wait to wear that amazing white dress and walk down the isle and look into the eyes of that cutie. and then the honeymoon. It sounds amazing, but that what a month top? what happens after that? Not only teens need to think about that question. Adults make the same mistakes. I think that the world should just stop. think. and then act. But then again we don't live in make believe land. We are human. We do make mistakes. But why make them when we can prevent them?? We don't need to get married. Isn't it enough to be with the person you Love?? I think for the time being, it is. For the future, who knows! Anything can happen...

Always live in Love...

Online dating sites

We always see all these commercials and ads about online dating sites. For example, eHarmony. com or Match.com. Living in the 21st century its great that we have technology that allows us to meet new people without even stepping out our front door. But is that a huge problem in disguise? More and more people are resorting to meeting the "one" online instead of going out and letting fate bring the person to them. To me, meeting online is not a natural thing. You don't really know who the person is or how they are or how they look. You don't even really know if their a male or female. Plus, today there are way to many sick people out there to take such a huge risk. Its dangerous. Also, I don't think its as much fun! You don't go through the awkward first things. the awkward first words and looks. Now let me explain that i am not against finding someone through technology, I have a family friend that met her husband because he dialed the wrong number. I just don't think that people should go out and look for Love because it wont end well. The "one" will just show up at your door, when they are meant to.

Always live in Love...

ADVICE!!!

I will like to take this blog to ask for your stories. I would Love to hear any stories that you would like to share with me. If you need any advice ask! =) I will do my best to help anyone out!

Always live in Love...

"Reincarnaion" by Suzanne Weyn

"From prehistory to the present, theirs was a love for the ages. It starts with a fight in a cave over an elusive green jewel . . . and then travels over time and lives to include Egyptian slaves, Greek temples, Massachusetts witch trials, Civil War battlefields, Paris on the eve of World War II, America in the 1960s . . . and a pair of modern-day teenagers. For readers who believe that love is stronger than time or death, this is an unforgettable novel from a wonderful storyteller."

For all my readers I highly suggest this novel. You wont want to put it down from the second you open the book. Its an amazing story about two people who travel through centuries. They end up in different parts of the world, they switch sexes, they love other people, and yet they find each other one way or another. It really makes you think. How wonderful would that be?? That's truly every girls dream. I couldn't help but smile the whole way until the end. What I like about it is that its not only one long story. You have two main characters, but they are so many different people. In the end you read tons of little stories that all connect by these two people. You also learn about history. It has many of the major events from history all over the world. It has slavery, Egyptian times, world war 2 and much more. I don't want to tell you to much, Id like for you to explore it on your own. I will tell that the chapter called Athens, Greece is absolutely my favorite. It was such a touching story, but don't take my word for it! Go out and read!! =)

Always live in Love...

P.S. - Hey Mrs. Stoklosa!! I used a vocab word =)

The rainy days.

Love is an amazing thing, don't get me wrong, but sometimes it has its not as amazing moments. The more in Love you are the more i think fights hurt. I cant figure out why people who say they Love each other so much can say such hurtful things. Do we get bored of being nice and happy all the time? When I'm in a fight it just ruins my whole day. I try to brush it off and hide it with a smile, but its hard. Especially when he doesn't attend cypress bay. Sometimes I just wish i would know when fights are coming, so I can stop them before they even start. Relationships are hard and sometimes you want to just give up. That's when you find out how much you really Love the other person.

Always live in Love...